This post was originally supposed to be something entirely different but then an incident occurred with me and I thought, ‘Eh, Why not?’
The thing is people say shitty stuff. But that’s because they care. They say it from their point of view. They don’t really know what’s going on in that lovely little brain of yours and what you actually want. They will nag you and scold you and literally try to drag to down to their path and make you do what they think is right. Be it about your clothes, your body, your career, your partner, people will always have their point of view which they will definitely put forward.
So what should you do then? Well, it’s quite natural to start feeling crappy and hateful towards those people (as it also happened with me) But hey, why should you spoil your mood and lower your energy due to someone else’s views? Just listen, ignore, bless their poor souls (without being condescending) and basically DO YOUR OWN SHIT.
Always and always do only what makes you happy. Always listen to that little voice in your head. Cause that’s what the real deal is. Your happiness is literally in your hands. So, always be someone that makes YOU happy, not someone else. 🙂